Step #4 – Ask for a pay rise
Once you’re in the meeting … your heart will be racing.
Again, don’t go for the jugular straight away. Don’t dive in head first with: "I was hoping we could talk about my salary. I’ve taken on several new responsibilities over the last year…blah blah blah."
(Very corporate and rigid)
Because pay rises go both ways. You want more money, but what more can your boss expect from you if they pay you more?
Here’s what I’d say:
"Hi [boss name], the reason I asked for the meeting is to check in to see how am I going, how to get better, and to talk about some of my personal goals.
Can I start by asking what are some of the things I’m doing well and I should keep doing?"
Let your boss share their thoughts and tell you all the good things you’re doing for the company. That lets them set the positive tone and remind themselves what you’re doing well.
" ... and I know I’m not perfect, and I really want to advance in this company. What are some of the things I could do more of to make the company better?"
Wait and listen for the answer. This will give you good feedback. It also demonstrates you want to do better at your job and help the company. That way they’ll see that you want to be around for longer.
Now transition into your salary discussion:
"Thanks. I’m gonna take that feedback on board. I’m gonna keep on doing X,Y, Z.
Now, I also wanted to talk about my personal goals. One is to buy an investment property; my mortgage broker mentioned I need to earn an extra $10k to make that happen.
I’ve looked at the market data, and I think I’m being underpaid by $10k. I can show you that research,but I’m here to ask for a $10k pay rise, because I think that’s fair."
This approach frames the conversation around your growth and goals, so you’re making it collaborative rather than confrontational.
Then there will be a back and forth between you. The answer won’t always be ‘yes’ but this approach sets you up for a good discussion.